Y the fuss

Sex before marriage.........its 1 of the most tabooed topic in Indian culture...........this is a kind of topic which people r not open 4 debate...........if u speak for the topic people can bring u down..........many people have had to pay a heavy price 4 speaking openly abt sex before marriage.............well I am a kind of a person who don’t care what others will think if I speak abt such tabooed topic...............if u r not liking it no need to read it or come any where near me
Personally I believe that when to have sex is up to each individual...........there should not be any set guidelines............as long as no 1 is getting hurt I think having sex before marriage is ok.............well there r many ways u have sex before marriage
1 of the ways is just have sex 4 the sake of having sex............2 people do it cause they want to know what it is.........how would they feel etc etc...........here there is no promise of marriage or anything...........just pure sex..............I think if both parties know what they r getting into its ok to have sex............its their bodies...........let them do what they want with it...........as long as its done behind closed doors
Well I strongly believe that having sex with a minor is a BIG NO NO................its illegal and it should remain that way...........minor gals or boys r ignorant..............then haven’t seen much of the outside wrld............and a adult having sex with him/her is equivalent to xploitation.........I don’t care if they r in love or not..........u should never ever have sex with a minor...........most minors don’t know what they r getting into..............they just know abt sex either frm buks or some porn movies..............they r termed as minors cause they r not ready to take decisions on their own...............its the time when they make most mistakes and I don’t think an adult should be a part of 1
Another way is b/w 2 people who luv each other both of whom wants to get married or spend the rest of their life with the other................they have sex cause they luv each other more than anything.........its shows the passion in their relationship..........I think this is ok too..........the only prob comes if they don’t end up together.......in India men have a thing 4 virgins and all men want their wife’s to be virgins(me 2)............have no clue y its like that................the risk is more 4 the gal than the guy
Another way is to say that u would marry some 1 and get some 1 into bed..........I hope the people who do such things ...............well since I am not supposed to use abusive wrds.......lets say that let something really really bad happens to them............I think its lame........and is sick.........to cheat some1 is not something real men does...............well lets hope that this doesn’t happen to u or me
hooking up with a prostitute is 1 way of satisfying ur desires..........prostitutes r people who r forced to sell their body either cause they have no money......or they have been forced to do it by some people........well I am not sure if v should legalize prostitution or not............well it has its on advantages and disadvantage............well hooking up with a pro is considered low every where in the wrld........is a very complex topic
I believe that to have sex is up to the 2 individuals who r involved in it...........as long as no rules or hears r broken I think its not a sin to have sex before marriage.........I think some thing which is going on in some1's bed room.........which wont affect national integration or the security of the nation in any way is no1's business............and 1's the children r grown up........I don’t think the parents have the rite to order them what to do................u tell ur children things u feel r rite when they r small.........and when they r grown up advice them when ever necessary......that’s all u can do...........if they think having sex is ok so be it.........its up to each individual how to live his life.............and as long as it doesn’t affect society I don’t think any 1 should get involved

PS : This doesnt mean that i would or would not have sex before marriage..........and i didnt ask every 1 of u to have sex before marriage...........just said that if peopel want to have sex y should u care if they do so.............its their body........let them do what they want with it