I hate you

I have always wondered how to handle a situation in which a person whom u don’t like or whom u want to avoid or whose company u dont enjoy tries to come close to u or be with u………..well there r 2 school of thoughts when such a thing happens

Well 1 way of dealing with it is to tell the person straight at his face that u don’t like him or where ever u feel abt him………or just be uninterested when u r with that person……………..in this way there is no misunderstanding b/w the 2……..each will know how the other feel………….u will be giving him a clear signal…….atleast u r being honest with him………and u wont give him a chance to say that after all this while u have been cheating him………saying sweet things to him and having a completely different idea abt him in ur mind…….but a prob with this approach is that the other person could get really hurt………it could be like taking his heart out and stabbing it……..being too frank can also be a prob……may be he will end up hating u

Another way of dealing with it is by not telling him what u feel abt him……..u can act like u r having fun when he is around………..just act like u r enjoying his company………keep him unaware of the prob u have with him……….by doing this u wont be hurting him………..but u r not being truthful to him or to ur self……….u will be having a really artificial relation with him………basically there wont be any meaning in ur relationship……….u wont be honest to each other………which I think is very important in any rel………u will be more or less like a hypocrite……..and if after a long time if the other person finds out that u had thought of him in such a way he would get more hurt then if he had found out in the begning…………but he doesn’t have to find out that.

Well I believe the 1^st way of dealing with the situation is the more ideal way…….u wont be cheating any 1…….and the other person wont be making a fool out of him self thinking that u r enjoying his company………..but being frank is not always gud………some times its better if u just pretend to have fun with the other guy……its like he doesn’t know that u don’t like his company so he wont get hurt…….and u wont get hurt cause u r not hurting some 1 else………like all the probs in life this too has no textbook solution………in different situations u must use different ways to handle things……..u must be tact full……u must make sure that u don’t hurt any 1 and u don’t make enemies……….u must handle different people differently………do what u think is rite and make sure that u don’t hurt any1’s feelings